Relationship Anxiety

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Love the person not the gender

Posted at Dec 10, 2018 9:49 PM, 0 comments

so this guy I have the biggest crush on last night said “look at you, your literally so perfect” and I started crying I was so happy... guys I finally found someone that makes me happy

Posted at Dec 9, 2018 4:48 PM, 0 comments

Over the last month or so I’ve been really wanting to be in a relationship with someone and have a boyfriend even though too many things are going on to start something. And I don’t want to be the type of person who wants to be with someone just to be with someone but I’d love to share my perspective of life with someone and be able to hug them

Posted at Dec 11, 2018 1:54 AM, 2 comments

Everyones walking out of my life. And now. I feel like im walking out on myself. And im just alone.

Posted at Dec 9, 2018 9:49 AM, 2 comments

I tend to get really anxious around people I like. Yesterday, instead of looking away when we made eye contact, I smiled at the girl I like.

Posted at Dec 10, 2018 4:07 AM, 2 comments

The fact that I’m not all he thinks about anymore hurts so bad

Posted at Dec 9, 2018 8:51 PM, 0 comments

Please anyone who can pray for me. I need someone back in my life and for their love to come back.

Posted at Dec 11, 2018 4:17 AM, 3 comments

I finally deleted my ex on social media. He was the first person I ever truly loved. I ended the relationship with him after 2 years. As someone with bpd i have trouble letting someone go.. this the first time ive ever made a step to be ok with being alone.

Posted at Dec 10, 2018 4:34 AM, 1 comments

I keep having dreams that we’re back together and happy. I’m okay without him but I miss him and I know he misses me and we also still love each other. No one understands why we broke up

Posted at Dec 9, 2018 5:17 PM, 2 comments

Anxiety gets in the way and forming realationships becomes harder...

Posted at Dec 9, 2018 11:05 AM, 3 comments

My boyfriend and I have had a rough relationship. When we are happy and good, man it’s the best feeling ever! We laugh, we goof around and we can make each other super happy. But when we’s the worst feeling ever. I tend to ignore and try and set boundaries but he doesn’t like that and he will say the ugliest things to me to try and get to me. Although I remain calm, I also get hurt by what he says. Idk what to do

Posted at Dec 11, 2018 12:20 AM, 1 comments

Been very neglected today by those who supposedly love me. I wish I had the strength to not care. I hate it when I care about people who don’t give a same about me. I really do not know the process of uncaring for the idiots of my life. Frustrating.

Posted at Dec 9, 2018 8:56 AM, 0 comments

Could really use some prayer to soften someone’s heart and fill it with love.

Posted at Dec 10, 2018 5:26 AM, 2 comments

I want more people to take care of me. I feel pathetic asking for more. And everybody got their own thing. I need someone just for me.

Posted at Dec 11, 2018 6:18 AM, 0 comments

So my boyfriend(well ex boyfriend) broke up with me 3 months ago. I am still trying to get over him, these 3 months were really hard for me.I had some anxiety attacks and panic attacks and I am still working on it. He really hurt me and I am trying to love myself again ,to feel confident in my own skin .So I just wanted to say if you are going through hard period in your life I want you to know that it will be okay ,you will be okay soon❤

Posted at Dec 9, 2018 9:25 PM, 1 comments

He posted on Instagram today, he looked so handsome. I miss kissing his face and seeing the way he looked at me. I don’t think I can do this much longer. That’s my love, he’s the one I’m supposed to be with

Posted at Dec 10, 2018 8:53 AM, 0 comments

I wish i could just end my pain. Not a soul cares and i dont want to be all alone. When i think a person cares they never do. I wouldnt be missed or noticed. I dont get to have that great life with friends and family and someone that cares. Why am i even alive idk

Posted at Dec 11, 2018 5:44 AM, 2 comments

So yesterday I told my crush I like him and he likes me back (I already knew that). But he got out of his first relationship in early september so i understand that he’s not ready for a relationship yet even though he’s over her. But he’s so scared of losing me and hurting me from the potential relationship ending that he’s conflicted and doesn’t know what to do about it. I suggested that we take winter break (a little over a month) to figure stuff out and go from there and he agreed. (1/2)

Posted at Dec 9, 2018 4:39 PM, 1 comments

All of my relationships with men have failed starting with the first one, my dad who was supposed to live and protect me, chose alcohol over me and my sister. I later chose the wrong person to marry, and of course that came to an end. I’ve never forgiven myself for choosing the wrong man, and now I’ve set the bar so high, that is unattainable for almost every men I know. I just don’t want to be vulnerable again.

Posted at Dec 10, 2018 2:59 AM, 3 comments

Honestly I’d much rather be talking to my friends or my fiancé about this but how do I tell them how I’m feeling when it’s so bad, when its the millionth time, when I ‘know’ they’re tired of my constant crap? How do I open my mouth and just say, ‘Hey kinda flailing over here, a little help?’ When I feel like I put so much on them already? UGH to everything, I’m frustrated and exhausted, when is summer?

Posted at Dec 9, 2018 3:46 PM, 2 comments

i dated this guy for 7 months. we broke up but after a few months of being apart, we talked and both of us said we still really cared for each other and wanted to be friends again. we’ve started hanging out pretty often, he’s one of my best friends, and i’m so happy to have him back in my life. but i still have feelings for him and i don’t know if i should tell him. i don’t want it to make our friendship awkward but i don’t think it’s good for my health to keep it in any more

Posted at Dec 11, 2018 2:03 AM, 0 comments

I’m twelve and being in middle school every one is all worried about being in a relationship and I’ve never been in a relationship and everyone else has and I’m worried people are going to take advantage of me 😞😞

Posted at Dec 10, 2018 9:46 PM, 3 comments

I’m kind of freaking out, I think I might be gay or bi and I have no clue what to do!

Posted at Dec 10, 2018 5:22 AM, 1 comments

i have a friend for more than 2 years now we are really close and recently he says and do things to show me that he could be interested in me but i really don’t know if his feelings are real or he just wants to be with someone

Posted at Dec 10, 2018 10:59 PM, 1 comments

I’ve dug myself into a hole of self hatred and misery that I can’t dig myself out of. My family has tried everything to get me out of it, giving me support, believing in me. I hate how I refuse their help every time they try to give it because i don’t believe I can be saved.

Posted at Dec 10, 2018 4:45 AM, 2 comments
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