Relationship Anxiety

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Anyone else here feel like they don't belong anywhere?

Posted at Apr 21, 2019 3:20 PM, 4 comments

I don't want someone who sees just the good in me. I want someone who sees the bad as well, and still loves me. 💖

Posted at Apr 23, 2019 5:00 PM, 0 comments

I want to be someone’s reason. Some meaning.

Posted at Apr 21, 2019 3:17 PM, 0 comments

to think that I used to believe I could not survive without my (now ex) boyfriend by my side, but now without him I’m thriving more each day

Posted at Apr 21, 2019 11:12 PM, 2 comments

Why is it so hard to get over someone you love, that never loved you?

Posted at Apr 22, 2019 1:39 AM, 11 comments

I don’t trust. I’ve been hurt so many times and I can’t open my heart these days.

Posted at Apr 22, 2019 4:53 AM, 2 comments

K can we start over again? Can you choose me even if you could have anyone? Even if im a fucking mess. Can i come first?

Posted at Apr 23, 2019 12:06 PM, 0 comments

Just friendship related, but I don't feel like I have got a true loyal friend anymore. I mean hanging out with my friends is fun, until you look under the facade and see that they aren't there for you in tough times. That they don't understand you and don't care about your opinion or how you feel, and eventually i saw that they aren't good friends. (1/2)

Posted at Apr 22, 2019 7:20 PM, 5 comments

Tired of being blamed for everything. A relationship is two people and both of their actions make or break it. I know i have things to fix but so does he.

Posted at Apr 22, 2019 5:49 PM, 2 comments

Didn’t realize snakes lived past the age of 10 but alright.

Posted at Apr 22, 2019 1:31 AM, 0 comments

I’m afraid to bring up a certain subject with my boyfriend. I’m afraid of the way that it might make him feel or of how he’ll react. I want to be open with him about it but I also don’t want to upset him..

Posted at Apr 23, 2019 6:48 AM, 1 comments

Dear ex-best friend - I’m going to move on and be better off without you. I hope you know you lost someone who would never have given up on you, but you left so now I don’t have a choice. Goodbye, I only hope I can forget you, and that you don’t forget me. 😞

Posted at Apr 25, 2019 2:23 AM, 1 comments

When will I be enough..

Posted at Apr 23, 2019 1:59 PM, 1 comments

I deserve more than unrequited love.

Posted at Apr 21, 2019 10:25 AM, 2 comments

Trust is the acceptance of not knowing. Separate worries from the truth. This is what i am currently working on after the hell ive been through.

Posted at Apr 24, 2019 7:45 PM, 0 comments

Do you sometimes feel like you dont want to bother ppl with your problem because you think it’s insignificant? Or maybe you’re insignificant?

Posted at Apr 25, 2019 10:42 AM, 3 comments

We don't meet people by accident. Everyone is meant to cross our paths for a reason

Posted at Apr 25, 2019 5:30 PM, 0 comments

I have known my partner for 7 years now and we are still learning how to better communicate with each other. It has been a slow process, but as I have become more confident in myself and less anxious I feel I am able to talk about more things, express myself more and inwardly reflect better. He, in turn, has grown as well, being more open to criticism, more understanding and less stubborn about apologising. It feels good.

Posted at Apr 22, 2019 10:04 PM, 6 comments

I finally blocked my ex on social media. Since the break up 6 weeks ago, I’ve gotten so many mixed messages about whether he still wanted me or not. When we have talked a little bit, it’s always been very friendly. But I just can’t take all of this anymore. I can’t take the pain of wondering if he truly still wants me and if we have a chance in the future. So I blocked him. I need to accept that it’s over.

Posted at Apr 21, 2019 8:46 PM, 1 comments

I just want someone to actually stick around for once, like fuck am I so bad that I can’t have anyone?

Posted at Apr 23, 2019 12:43 PM, 1 comments

Today I found out that my ex is dating someone else. It’s to be expected, but the pain is still real. But I guess that’s part of the process, learning to truly let go of what’s no longer there.

Posted at Apr 22, 2019 6:48 PM, 1 comments

Sometimes I feel so sad in my relationship, but I don’t have any reason to be. My boyfriend treats me like a princess. But I always catch myself overthinking the smallest things.

Posted at Apr 21, 2019 6:53 PM, 0 comments

My crush started tk date someone and it hurts to see them together. And I don’t know why I’m mad at him I’ve never even talked to him. He’s popular and plays sports, and the chances of him liking me are slim.

Posted at Apr 24, 2019 5:40 PM, 2 comments

okay long story short, i can think of a million reasons why i don’t want to be with my boyfriend (he has no ambitions, he has no job, not in school, he’s messy, all he does is play video games all day, he ignores me) but i can’t stand the thought of losing him. I’ve told him about these things many times and he says he will... (cont in comments)

Posted at Apr 24, 2019 8:38 PM, 4 comments

Rebuilding a marriage from the ground up due to a lot of infidelity causing a million daily struggles and at the same time working out somethings within yourself like anxiety and depression you have suffered for years creates the perfect storm. ⛈

Posted at Apr 24, 2019 6:47 AM, 2 comments
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