Relationship Anxiety

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My boyfriend hasn’t spoken to me in a week. He’s battling depression and anxiety and said he needed time to figure things out. But I’m growing very anxious now. I reached out to his sister this morning but we aren’t friends on Facebook so I don’t know if she’ll even see the message. I pray that he finds clarity and that we talk soon. 🙏🏼

Posted at Feb 17, 2019 3:19 PM, 5 comments

My fiancé is gone for work for one month now. I freaked out and was bawling like a baby the first night he left because I miss him so much and felt like it was going to be so hard to be without him. But he’s kept in good contact with me, and every day I feel a little more strength within myself and like I really will be able to get through this.

Posted at Feb 17, 2019 5:39 PM, 0 comments

Looking forward to that time in the future when I’m ready for a relationship and meet someone that makes me feel that excited feeling ☺️

Posted at Feb 17, 2019 10:51 AM, 0 comments

I have the tendency to push people away because In my mind I’m thinking they will hurt me. Overthinking and worrying gets to be too much so I end up wrecking it and getting hurt anyways. I have a hard time focusing on the positives so I have no luck in the area of relationships or dating.

Posted at Feb 18, 2019 1:29 AM, 1 comments

Just saw about someone feeling clingy to their bf. Nice to know I'm not the only one. I started seeing someone back in October. Started casual, but it feels for me much more now. I'm letting go of a.previou serious relationship prior to this one, grieving, hopeful, more aware of how much I need to just love myself

Posted at Feb 18, 2019 3:01 AM, 0 comments

It’s my birthday tomorrow, and I’m crying myself to sleep tonight. All I can think about is how much everyone hates me, and how I can’t trust anyone because they’re all so fake. I’m so sick of playing mind games with family and so-called “friends.” I’m exhausted trying to figure out everyone’s hidden agendas.

Posted at Feb 18, 2019 7:51 AM, 6 comments

I been feeling like my life isn’t moving forward and like I’m wasting my life. I feel worthless and unimportant. I became suicidal and not one of my so called friends were there for me or made it worse. I feel like I don’t matter. I live alone and I feel like if I did go through with it no one would have noticed, that’s how invisible I feel here.

Posted at Feb 17, 2019 7:13 PM, 1 comments

i’ve been the happiest in my relationship. my partner assures me of everything. my fear is of losing this happiness i feel & i can’t seem to understand why i stress this

Posted at Feb 17, 2019 1:44 PM, 2 comments

My dad is being so moody again. I just wish he would work on himself. It affects everyone.

Posted at Feb 17, 2019 8:45 AM, 0 comments

i am really clingy to my boyfriend and it’s really hard for me to give him space. i’m so used to hanging out with him everyday it’s weird for me not too. How do i give him space while also keeping myself happy?

Posted at Feb 18, 2019 1:11 AM, 1 comments

I have someone I’m head over heels for but I just can’t bring myself to show it.

Posted at Feb 18, 2019 4:23 AM, 1 comments

My partner is in the Australian Army and I’m a university student we’re both based in 2 different states. He is my world, the distance and extended time not knowing when we’ll see eachother hurts my heart so much, I can’t help but break down

Posted at Feb 17, 2019 11:40 AM, 1 comments

I’m so in love with my best friend. He is everything to me and I’ve never felt like this in my entire life...sometimes it feels like I’m going explode because I love him so much. But he battles addiction and depression and commitment issues and he can’t love me back...I just don’t know how to not be so attached to someone who doesn’t feel the same way about me. It’s eating me away inside and I don’t know what to do...I think I’m addicted to him

Posted at Feb 18, 2019 2:07 AM, 1 comments

I work 12h shifts in an ICU~ whenever I work, I'm incredibly tired when I come home from work. It sucks Bc my partner is home and he'll want to spend time with me watching our shows and stuff (which I love). I end up falling asleep shortly after we eat dinner, and it really sucks Bc I want to spend time with him too. He's understanding of it but I wish I could stay up later.

Posted at Feb 17, 2019 10:54 AM, 2 comments

Me and wife seem to be at an impasse. I want more time together and she says we have enough. I want more excitement and she is content with how things are. I want to enjoy things together more and she would rather go out with her friends. I want to have sex and she wants no part of it. I’m so confused and have no clue what to do or how to come to a compromise because she doesn’t feel the need for compromise. She feels everything is fine and I’m just trying to hard.

Posted at Feb 18, 2019 2:09 AM, 3 comments

I love & hate seeing people get married and proposed to on social media. Its a constant reminder of what I want but doesn't seem like will ever happen. I think I should just delete my accounts.

Posted at Feb 18, 2019 2:18 AM, 3 comments

Okay so. In November I was forced into having an abortion. My boyfriend wasn’t my boyfriend at the time but wanted to be he stayed with me and helped me through the abortion and everything. Now I was a baby so badly but he doesn’t want one. I was 6 days late and was so happy and ready to find out I was pregnant again. I was devastated to start my period and I have never been this sad before. It’s the worse feeling and I feel like I can’t even talk to him about it.

Posted at Feb 17, 2019 9:06 AM, 0 comments

I’m going to see my boyfriend who lives in London and I’m on the train on my way to see him. But I just feel nothing. Like no excitement. Nothing. This feeling has been going on for a while now, until I get off the train and when I hug him I feel these feelings again. But it really messes up with my feelings. What should I do?

Posted at Feb 18, 2019 12:01 PM, 1 comments

It’s hard to keep going without him and I can’t help but feel like I drove him away with the way that I am. I miss him so so much.

Posted at Feb 17, 2019 10:55 AM, 1 comments

A week ago, my bf broke up with me..saying he only came back to make sure he wasn’t making a mistake and said I’m not the one. All this was done through text. I also just failed a very important exam a few days before.

Posted at Feb 17, 2019 6:37 PM, 2 comments

My boyfriend and I are on a break and we are deciding if we should try again tommorow. But I don’t want to! He made me feel so uncomfortable and like I was a piece of meat at times that I don’t wanna. He keeps saying that he wants to get back together and he’s telling me he misses me but I really think he’s just guilt tripping me.

Posted at Feb 18, 2019 3:01 AM, 2 comments

I did the stupidest thing and checked on my friend’s who shut me out social media. I knew it as a bad idea but i was fine until I saw that she had responded to one of her other friends and it hurt so bad even though I’m pretty sure she’s not even good friends with her. That almost makes it worse because she’s all happy to talk to her but she shut out her so called best friend :/ I was finally getting over this, why did I have to do that 😞

Posted at Feb 18, 2019 12:13 AM, 0 comments

My bf doesn't text me except once every week or so and it makes me anxious and depressed. What should I do?

Posted at Feb 18, 2019 1:27 PM, 0 comments

We’re arguing right now. How did we ever get to this point in our relationship? He’s telling me that it’s just me overthinking everything....maybe it is.

Posted at Feb 18, 2019 8:05 AM, 0 comments

I always cry after sex....

Posted at Feb 18, 2019 5:49 AM, 1 comments
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