“Working as a server is incredibly demeaning ... especially for a place that is somewhat sexist. It bothers me every day and makes me feel out of control to work there and be told to look a certain way and to be this fake person. I want a new job but I am so scared to quit and start something unfamiliar... I feel stuck :( doesn't help that I feel like an outsider there for not 'doing my hair properly, or wearing makeup or not bending over backwards for everyone there...'”
Posted anonymously in Pacifica's Work Stress community.